Thursday, February 26, 2009

It's the thought that counts.....

I'm sure I do a lot of things that drive people crazy. I'm sure of it. But, one thing that I try to be aware of every single day is to not take people for granted. There are times and places for things like "pleases" and "thank-yous" and "would you minds?" and they should be lavished upon the people we spend the most time with, not just the teller at the bank or the kid at the coffee shop.

I try to appreciate lots of little things, probably because my life is all little things right now, but people are on the top of the list. I'll use that as the excuse as to why my house is always so messy....it's because I'm trying to put people first! Hehe.


So, I just wanted to say thank you to my mom and step-dad, Jim, for taking Eliana last weekend so Derrick and I could have a much needed and super-fun weekend up in Ft. Collins (to use the gift certificates that they gave us for Christmas...so thoughtful.) And, a thanks for just stopping by or calling to say "Hi" and all those nice things you do. Thanks to Derrick's mom, Barbara, for having so much fun with Elle on Wednesdays. She loves the time with Grandma and I LOVE the time to myself (even if it is spent doing a glucose test at the doctor's office....) Thanks to my dad, Ron, who actually called this week to make sure we were doing okay because he hadn't heard from us....in two whole days.

And thanks Armando for calling to make dinner plans as I've been MIA as of late....and "Auntie D" and JR for being our great neighbors and last-minute baby-sitters. We have the best parents, the most wonderful siblings, and the greatest friends on the planet.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Delicious!

Here's the yummy soup recipe that Derrick and I love. Make some this weekend as I think it's supposed to snow....a tiny little bit.

Slow Cooker Butternut Squash Soup
(from the Betty Crocker Christmas Cookbook)

prep: 15 minutes total time: 6 hours 45 min makes: 6 servings

2 tablespoons butter or margarine
1 medium onion, chopped (1/2 cup)
1 butternut squash (2 lbs.) peeled, cubed
2 cups water
1/2 teaspoon dried marjoram leaves
1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
1/8 teaspoon ground red pepper (cayenne)
2 extra-large vegetarian vegetable bouillon cubes (i use chicken...still good!)
1 package (8 oz) cream cheese, cubed

1.) In a 10-inch skillet, melt butter over medium heat. Cook onion in butter, stirring occasionally, until crisp-tender.

2.) In 3 1/2 to 4-quart slow cooker, mix onion and remaining ingredients except cream cheese.

3.) Cover: cook on low heat setting 6 to 8 hours.

4.) In blender or food processor, place one-third to one-half of the soup mixture at a time. Cover: blend on high speed until smooth. Return mixture to slow cooker. Using wire whisk, stir in cream cheese. Cover: cook on low heat setting about 30 minutes, stirring occasionally with wire whisk, until cheese is melted and soup is smooth.

Enjoy!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

I have to agree....

Let's be honest....the stimulus is a big scary thing. I can't say I agree completely with every aspect, but I know something has to be done. I just find it interesting what's being said about it. I thought this commentary was particularly good at giving it some perspective.

Commentary: If you oppose stimulus, don't take the money

By Paul Begala
CNN Contributor

WASHINGTON (CNN) -- Gov. Mark Sanford of South Carolina took umbrage at my writing that his approach to the economic crisis is to do nothing. I'll deal with his "ideas" in a moment, but first let me make a modest proposal:

If Republican politicians are so deeply opposed to President Obama's economic recovery plan, they should refuse to take the money. After all, if you think all that federal spending is damaging, there are easy ways to reduce it: Don't take federal money.

Gov. Sanford can lead the way. South Carolina should decline to accept any federal funds for transportation, education, health care, clean energy or any of the other ideas President Obama is advocating to fix the economy. And the rest of the GOP can follow suit.

Justice Louis Brandeis famously called states "laboratories of democracy." So let's experiment. Gov. Sanford can be the guinea pig. His Palmetto State already gets $1.35 back from Washington for every dollar it pays in federal taxes, according to 2005 numbers, the latest calculated by the Tax Foundation, a nonprofit tax research group.

South Carolina is a ward of the federal government. It's been on welfare for years. If Gov. Sanford is so all-fired opposed to federal spending, let's start by cutting federal spending in South Carolina. Otherwise, he's got about as much credibility on fiscal conservatism as A-Rod has on steroids.

Under the Bush-Sanford economic theories, South Carolina's unemployment rate has reached 9.5 percent -- among the highest in the nation. But if Gov. Sanford wants to continue those policies, good luck to him.

Make no mistake about it, Republicans like Gov. Sanford want to go back to the bad old days of George W. Bush. In his CNN.com column, Gov. Sanford expends 605 words attacking President Obama's plan to turn the country around after eight years of Bush-Republican-Sanford economics.

That is his right, but attacking President Obama's plan is not itself an alternative plan. Nor is dredging up hoary old gripes about the New Deal. Nor, indeed, is deriding neighborhood electric vehicles -- which create jobs, save money and reduce pollution -- as "streamlined golf carts." But that is what Gov. Sanford offers us. iReport.com: Share your thoughts on the stimulus plan

Then Gov. Sanford turns to his ideas (keep in mind he was responding to my charge that he favors doing nothing). He devotes precisely one half of one sentence to his plan to save the world economy; 24 words that will create millions of jobs, restore liquidity to capital markets, protect investors and consumers, regenerate stagnant demand and restore the capitalist system. Here they are:

"... cutting the payroll tax, opening foreign markets through an expansion of our trade agreements, and reducing our corporate tax, which is among the highest worldwide."

Wow. As we say in the South, I've got the vapors. So cutting taxes and cutting trade deals will get us out of this mess? That's all we need to do?

We don't need to extend unemployment insurance, or update health information technology, or move to renewable energy or repair roads or rebuild bridges or modernize the power grid or prevent states and cities from laying off teachers and cops or any of the other myriad proposals in President Obama's plan?

To be sure, President Obama's plan includes tax cuts -- mostly for middle-class families. But cutting taxes on corporate profits is of little utility when there are no corporate profits to tax. And precisely with whom would Gov. Sanford cut these miraculous trade deals? In case he hasn't been watching CNN, the entire world economy is in the tank.

If cutting taxes for the rich and for big corporations and promoting foreign trade alone could energize the economy, we wouldn't be in this mess. But maybe Gov. Sanford is right. Let's keep our federal money -- give it to states where the governors will actually put it to good use. We'll let Gov. Sanford try his plan, we'll try President Obama's plan.

Something tells me Gov. Sanford won't take that gamble. Because for all his rhetoric about hating federal spending, he can't wait to get his hands on our money.

The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of Paul Begala.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Family Night

I don't know when we loose our childish sense of adventure but inevitably it seems to happen. I'll blame high school SAT's and first broken hearts and renter's insurance. Those things all seem like dream crushers to me.....

Luckily for Eliana, and her 4-year-old cousin, Cole, that's not something they have to worry about for a long time. With Cole leading the way, they both strapped on to Derrick's legs and went for a ride around Aunt Wendy and Uncle Chris' house the other night. They giggled like mad and Ellie was quite proud for being able to keep up with "the big boy" if even just for a few minutes. (She did keep forgetting to actually hold on...details.)

We adults get so wrapped up in our own lives that we're terrible about getting together for no reason at all. Thanks to Wendy for the nice last-minute invitation and the wonderful dinner. And the whole family for lots of laughs and love.....oh, and the cookies. Can't forget the cookies.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Mine Valentine


Relationships are funny. Mr. Pope and I are extremely happy together....most of the time. There are always the little things that get in the way of remembering why we're so happy together, but luckily for us, those things are usually few and far between. I'm lucky that not only am I married to a truly wonderful man, but I actually like him, I really do like him!

We have too much fun together once all of life's little tasks are cleared away at the end of the day. Take last night for instance, when I became obsessed with a little online game called Mafia Wars. I'm actually obsessed. And this brought Derrick an enormous sense of joy to see me go nuts over something that he himself loves so much (not Mafia Wars in particular...but online gaming in general. He's a fan, if you don't know. A big online gaming nerdy fan.) He laughed at me all night....and this morning too as I burnt Eliana's breakfast to get a few more "jobs" done on the game.

We laugh at each other, we have fun together, and every now and then we realize that we really get along well. Who knows...by the end of this whole marriage thing I might love comic books, Xbox gaming and beach volleyball and he'll be really into vegetarian cooking, Hemingway novels, Coach bags and Coen brothers movies!!

I'm just happy we're in it and that we're in it together. Happy Valentine's Day to everyone and especially mine valentine and mafia companion, Derrick.















(In other family news Elle loved her valentine with the stickers. Oh, how every little girl loves stickers. Good job, Dad.)

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Highly Educated

I used to have to teach civics courses to high school freshman in one of my former lives. I LOVE education....the same probably can't be said for high school freshman. They are usually pretty terrible. (No offense to any of you who might perhaps be or have one....it's just an awkward time, you know?!?)

The experience of teaching always reminded me of all the things I don't know. There are a lot, I'm sure. But I love to know what I don't know....so I can work on becoming a tad more enlightened. So in that effort, my mom sent me this:

http://www.rethinkingschools.org/just_fun/games/mapgame.html

Give it a whirl and see how well you know your middle-eastern geography. It took me forever....but I conquered it. And I'm sure I learned something in the process. Good luck!

In other very exciting education news, Derrick is almost done with his MBA! He's been working his tail off and will complete his last day of class on April Fool's Day. How fitting. Send him good vibes and he might just make it without loosing his mind (or suffering a much worse fate....an overtired, overworked wife.) Go, baby, go!!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Good Food/Good Times

We had absolutely NO plans for what turned out to be a really great super bowl game....until my mom invited herself (and the rest of the family) over to watch it on Mr. Pope's very impressive TV. She NEVER does that. She's not that kind of mom. She gives me lots of space and time and anything and everything I need. So I loved that she called and made plans like any other mom on the planet.

What a nice afternoon! Mom, Judy, and dad, Jim, came up with my grandmas, Lola & Doris. They brought dinner, chips & dip and cookies. All I contributed was a moderately clean house, some beverages and a super-delicious baked brie complete with mini football cutouts baked on top. (Yes, cheesy. I know. Get it...cheesy!! Hahaha.)

We had a wonderful time with the family and Eliana was in rare form entertaining the masses with her antics. For the first time ever she called down the stairs to Derrick in that "I'm a little girl who knows how to manipulate her Daddy" voice. She called "Daaaaadddddyyyy" like a little southern belle and melted my heart....well, and probably stopped Derrick's. She's gonna have no problem with him I think.

The good eats continued on Monday as Ellie and I made my Aunt Trudi's Bananaberry Bomb Muffins....from scratch. Eliana helped dump all the ingredients, stir the batter, and put the mix into muffin tins. So great!! She loves helping in the kitchen and I LOVE to cook. I think she and I might be able to make this work in our favor. I'm not sure that she liked the finished product as much as the process, but I'm sure I'll have eaten all the muffins myself before the week is out.

As promised previously, they are also healthy and low-fat. Derrick hasn't eaten ANY of them...but a girl can only do some much, you know? Here's the delicious recipe if you're interested.

Bananaberry Bombs
(from the Looneyspoons Cookbook by Janet & Greta Podleski)
ahhhh...I love a good Canadian cookbook


1 cup quick-cooking rolled oats
1/2 cup each all-purpose flour and whole wheat flour
1/4 cup wheat germ
1/2 cup sugar
1-1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1 teaspoon baking soda
1-1/2 cups mashed bananas (ripe)
2 egg whites
1/4 cup reduced fat butter or margarine (but not fat-free)
1 cup fresh or frozen blueberries

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Combine oats, flours, wheat germ, sugar, baking powder & soda, and salt in a large bowl. Stir well and set aside.

In a small bowl, whisk together bananas, egg whits and melted butter until smooth. Add banana mixture to dry ingredients and mix until just moistened. Gently fold in blueberries.

Spray large muffin tin with non-stick spray. Divide batter evenly between 12 muffin cups. Bake for 20 minutes.